Libra Conflict Resolution



Conflicts happen in every relationship no matter how hard you try to avoid it. A couple may have a lot of things in common but there will come a time they will disagree on something. Even the so called smooth sailing relationships can come across waves that will rock the ship. It's not the end of the world, though. There are ways to work things out if you really want to. Even the peace- loving Libra gets into a fight with their loved ones. Yes, they try avoid any sort of argument as much as they can but sometimes arguments come barging in. Libras have a calm facade and an aura that spells fun and good times but just because they're one of the most hopeless romantic and peaceful signs on the zodiac wheel doesn't mean it's going to be easy to appease them when they're upset.

For starters, and obviously, people under the scale sign are hard to piss off so you must have done something really extreme to get them upset. Or something distasteful. Libras are very diplomatic and they try to be fair all the time. They do have sudden angry outbursts but this very seldom happens and it's not like the freak- out scenes you'll get with other signs; they will try to maintain their poise at all times. They will consider what needs to be considered when they are in an argument. They check their reasonings before they say it out loud. If they can they'd even rehearse it just to be sure they say the right things. As much as they try to be objective, every person has the tendency to lean on something so don't expect them to be the one to understand you all the time.

Now, the best way to resolve any kind of conflict is to approach the topic the right way. And to know how to approach it you need to determine the core issue. Ask yourself questions like: What did you do to make the Libra mad? What happened that made you react that way the first place? Are there any people outside of the argument that you can ask to figure out if it was really you or your Libra partner who did it? Normally, the cause of a usual argument with a Libra is when you do something of bad taste. So try to figure out what that is and open the topic up very gently. Don't push Libra to tackle the issue right away. Another thing Libra hates are confrontations. They'd let it drag and things might get worse if you're not careful. Give them presents or just small tokens as a peace offering. It will help but then again it's what you will say that will matter. Now, when you do start talking try to make the Libra understand that you'd like to work on the issue TOGETHER. Use "WE" and "US" instead of "me", "i", or "you." Libras are big on companionship so let them realize you are together in this (or any) issue. When you get their full attention you can start appealing by talking about your point but make sure you let them say their piece too. Try to reach a compromise if a solution is not available right away. It's not hard to do this with a Libra. They will settle for something in the mean time if they think it will make things better.

Once you get to explain your point and make them understand and feel that you respect their opinion too, it won't be too hard to get back to how you were before the argument started. Just remember next time to try to avoid getting in an argument with your Libra lover. They can be one of the sweetest people you're ever going to be with so make sure you show them cherish whatever they can offer. It's one of the most important things you can do for them.

Librans and Aquarians have always strike a perfect friendship equation. Both star signs are adventurous and freedom lovers and together they make a great team. When they set out for something, it becomes more like an adventurous expedition. Together they share great adventure stories. Both of them have varied interest and each keeps the other updated and makes them take up the challenge for fun sake. Both of them like travelling to new places and are quite informative and well read. So they stimulate each other intellectually, and in turn it broadens their horizons for more experience and brings more depth to their friendship. They challenge each other to try out for new things. Both are wanderers and can go round the globe just to seek adventure and fun. Each day is like a new day for both of them.

Librans and Aries have always enjoyed a good rapport. They have so many similarities that they always end up seeking each other. They are both passionate about fun and adventure and can handle each other idiosyncrasy. And they both understand the need for them to seek out fresh ventures each day. Usually it is an Arian who brings up new ideas and the Librans are okay with it as long as they are entertained. Librans are always up for game and an Aries friend always brings him that challenge that he seeks for. That is why their compatibility ratio is very strong. They do not keep any ill feelings towards anybody and do not hold grudges so with that same level of understanding, they together combine a spirit of fun and adventure. Both have so much in common, that they truly strike a great friendship deal.

Librans and Gemini also make a great pair. They hit it off because of the fact that they are both casual in their outlook and their approach to life. They are no-nonsense people and have no room for grudges. They move on easily. Therefore both of these signs enjoy a kind of an ease and a comfort level with each other. They make great friends because of this deep seated understanding between each other. Their friendship is kind of uplifting for both spirits. Both these signs are equally adaptable to changes around them. They share the same drive and are impulsive to the core and wonít think twice for a call for adventure.

And last but not the least, is the Librans and the Leo friendship equation that is built in sizzling and striking fire. Both share a ferocity that no one else would be able to match. Both signs enjoy each otherís company and are always thrilled with new challenges facing them. Their ego might clash once in a while but their fights are not lasting and when they get back together, the energy is like never before. Both have a deep admiration for each otherís strength and so each will allow the other to grow their own way.



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