Keeping the Romance alive with a Libra

How do I keep my Romance alive with a libra?

Winning a Libra doesnít stop when you got them to say yes. One of the biggest mistake that people in a relationship does is that they stop trying to please or impress their partners once they win them over. Both parties need to keep each other on their feet and make their relationship fun as it was when they first started. Here are a few of the things to keep that romantic flame with a Libra burning.

Be As Much As A Social Butterfly As He/She Is. Go out when he asks you to go out. Donít stay cooped up in the house. A Libra doesnít like being alone and although he has you, heís born to mingle with people so he will look for that feeling of being in the company of a group of people. He will do the same for you when you want to go out so do not hesitate to give in to his request.

Show How You Trust Him and Value His Freedom. Libranís are big on freedom to do things their own way. They do not want to feel caged in and they will not have their partners feel that way either. If they want to go out with their friends let them. This also shows you trust him to do things when youíre not around. A Libra likes to flirt around, yes, but he only does this to boost his confidence. Libranís wonít take it seriously especially since they are attached. Sometimes they donít even know they are flirting. So make him feel you trust him enough and wonít get jealous or over react. A Libra can tolerate jealousy but only to a point. If itís too much, expect him to head to the nearest exit. In return, your Libra partner will trust you to go out your own way. But donít just do this for him. Value both your independence and he will have much respect for you..

Let Them Help You With Your Problems. Librans are fixers. They like to mend things and solve problems. So expect him to help you out with your problems. Donít let your pride rule. Librans are very affectionate and being their partner they will want to help you out and treat your problems as theirs. When a Libra accepts you he will accept everything about you. He will also want to share the weight that is on your shoulders.

Avoid Arguing And Causing Conflicts. Librans are peaceful and diplomatic in nature. They do not like to argue instead they will compromise or avoid arguing altogether. Do not argue for the sake of argument, the Libra wonít want this.

Spice Up Your Sex Life. The usual wonít do. Librans are very touchy and showy of their affection in public so just imagine when the two of you are alone. They will try anything once so donít be surprised if he pulls some tricks out of his sleeves. Better yet, try to think of your own tricks and be the one to surprise him!

Always Look Your Best. Never give your Libra partner a reason to look the other way. He will not want to look at you if you donít try to keep yourself presentable at the least. He might look at others at the first chance he gets if youíre slack at taking care of your appearance. Make sure you keep your appearance up for a Librans vanity does not stop at himself. It extends to their partners. Librans like to dress up and keep themselves fit so make sure you return the favor.

The Librans woman has trouble being quiet, and in addition she enjoys activities that one usually associates with a man such as baseball, hockey, football and the like. She prefers a casual atmosphere instead of something that requires her to dress up and have to worry about getting dirty or wrinkled. She prefers men who also dress casual and sportyóthis lady is not into the prim and proper high class restaurant date. While she might enjoy movies, she will not enjoy something that forces her to be on her best behavior such as the opera or a classy theater.

If youíre look to date someone as a potential partner, keep in mind the Librans woman is not the kind who will ever be a stay at home housewife. Like her mail counterpart, she enjoys the freedom to do her own thing though she will sometimes enjoy being with her partner. If you want to please a Librans woman, choose an activity that will allow her to be active and burn off some excess energy. She will also enjoy the beach and loves to travel to exotic places. While you wonít be traveling on vacation for a first date, it is certainly important to keep these things in mind if you want to continue dating a Librans woman.

While the Librans woman enjoys sports and other types of male-dominated activities, you have to keep in mind she prefers participating rather than watching. That doesnít mean she would not enjoy going to a baseball game with you, but she would much prefer participating rather than just watching. You can take her bowling, bicycling, horseback riding, skating, swimming, hiking or camping depending on the weather. The main thing to keep in mind is the Librans woman enjoys being active, so you want to choose an activity that will allow her to burn off steam.

Itís also important to remember Librans in general has an active mind, and the Librans woman can be very talkative when you get her onto a subject about which she has a great deal of knowledge. This is one of the reasons it is a good idea to take her places where she can be active rather than places that require peace and quiet and silence. That doesnít mean she would not enjoy a quiet dinner occasionally, but it is probably not something she would enjoy for a first date.

Since your Librans woman enjoys outdoor activities, you might also consider surfing, boating, or snow or water skiing depending on what time of the year it is. She enjoys being free, so the more exotic the location the better she likes it. Certainly if you meet her when you are in a foreign country you will find a great deal more activities she will enjoy, but if you use your imagination and think of all the wild activities you normally enjoy, you will surely think of something that will excite your Librans woman on your first date.

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