Dating a libra man

Dating a Libra Man

A lot of women will vie for the attention of a Libra man. He, after all, is charming, charismatic, social, fair, generous, peace-loving, kind and mostly good looking. All of which are characteristics of how a woman would describe the perfect guy. In a way, a Libra man can be the perfect guy but only to the woman who they think is worthy. A Libra man is accommodating so people think they are easy to please and win. They can be very selective and choosy, though. He will not mind talking to you if you approach him but just because you shared a few laughs doesn't mean he will want to date you. This is one of the reasons he is branded as a womanizer. He is willing to please anyone because it makes him feel good to make people smile. He takes comfort on knowing he can make people happy. So if he goes out of his way to please someone it doesn't mean he's already trying to single her out. He's just born that way. In a way, you can say he is a womanizer in the nicest, possible way.

Dating a Libra man can be like a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and occasional loops. Don't think you have pinned him down. This could be the hardest thing to do. He has a way of showing that you have, though. They are highly romantic people. You can classify a Libra man in two: a well refined Libra man can be very sensitive with his dates but still be regarded as a ladies' man; he has perfected this craft of making his date feel like the luckiest woman in the room but still be able to woo others. The other is a Libra with a less developed charm. He will come off as fake and a white liar. He will want to please as it is their nature but won't be able to get the same results as the refined Libra man.

You need to keep a few things in mind if you want to keep dating the Libra man.

Libra men love pretty things. And pretty women. If you met a Libra man and want to be asked out, make sure you look good everytime he sees you. A Libra man will talk to you and entertain you but won't ask you out if you don't look presentable at the least. Start with the way you look and work your way through other things.

Feed your brain. He is brainy so he would expect a girl he dates to be the same. Make sure you have a lot of things to say to keep those awkward silences away. He would want a nice conversation so you have to keep up.

Be fair. Librans try to be fair and balanced. Thus they are represented by the scales. They are dedicated to equality and finds women who regard things the same way as he does.

Accept his relationships. By that we mean you should know he has a lot of friends, both men and women. He would want to spend time with them too and if he invites you to hang out with his friends, consider yourself lucky. He values their opinion and would want to know what they think of you because he likes you.

Be refined. He may be a ladies' man but he turns away from trashy women. He gives high regard to women with class and can hold themselves up with grace. He won't mind you making the first move but he wouldn't want to handle you either if you come off too strong.

Support and gently direct his decisions. He has a lot of great ideas but lack the will to push through with it. He may keep himself from making decisions because he's not sure if he's doing the right thing. This will make him postpone decision making. Don't push too hard, otherwise you'll find yourself back to square one.

Sign up for an art program you'll both enjoy. This is a great activity to entertain a Libra. He loves art and the aesthetics so why settle for an art gallery when you can participate in the program? If you don't know which activity to join, try everything one at a time. :)

Avoid arguments and maintain harmony. Librans are peace -loving by nature so avoid arguing with them. They are diplomatic and will try to level with you but only up to a certain point. Be too pushy and this charming guy will walk out on you faster than you can think of.

Libra men are a great catch. If you found yourself lucky enough to be with one, make sure you do your best to keep him and he will reward you with the most romantic experience every woman dreams of!

by: Bryce Jackson
Published: Dec 29th 2010

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